Play helps children to develop and learn.
Playing with your child lets them know that:
- you love them
- they're important
- they're fun to be around
You can build a strong relationship with your child through playing with them. This can help their long-term mental health in a positive way.
Making time for your child
Play sessions do not need to be long to be useful. But if it's hard to find time to play together, you can spend time with your child in other ways.
You could let them help you with household chores, such as cooking and cleaning. Learning to help you complete tasks can improve your child’s concentration.
Spending time with you also helps their development. It is better than playing with an electronic device or watching television.
Screen time and young children
Reading together
Reading together helps:
- build a connection
- improve your child's language skills and concentration
- encourage learning
You can borrow books and audio books for free at your local library.
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Being playful in everyday activities
You do not have to plan every play session. There are lots of ways you can be playful, learn and have fun together in everyday actions.
For example, you could:
- sing a silly song while brushing your child's teeth
- play I spy while you walk somewhere
Play routine
A play routine is a planned play session that follows a sequence of activities.
When you make a play routine, consider:
- how long you plan to play
- what skills you want to develop
- how to make it fun
- making it child-led (for older children)
Play routines should be repetitive. Repetition gives children the opportunity to practise skills.
By planning ahead you can let your child know when playtime ends. Children like to be able to finish their game, rather than stopping suddenly.
Finish your play routine by encouraging your child to tidy up. This way they know when playtime is over.